Herbert Heineman

A Different Kind of Vacation

Additional photos by Rachel Heineman
Herb’s article and photos appeared in the February, 2010, issue of The Lumberton Campus Chronicle

Three months ago the only knowledge I had of dogsledding was the Iditarod and polar exploration; I didn’t realize one did it purely for recreation. Then Maggie announced that she would go dogsledding with our daughter Lisa—a mother-daughter vacation. Intrigued by the idea, I decided to go with our NYC grandchildren. Only Rachel was available, so it was just the two of us. Rachel is 14.

Ely (short “y” like nearly), MN, some 250 miles north of Minneapolis, touts itself as the country’s dogsledding capital. The economy of that small town revolves around outdoor sports. Frigid winters make for skiing, snowmobiling, and dogsledding. In summers canoes ply the countless lakes and waterways collectively referred to as the Boundary Waters. In January of this year Ely enjoyed a spell of cold in the range of 30-35 degrees below zero. Luckily for us Easterners, our visit found all temperatures above zero, although single-digit readings greeted us the first night. Hardy vacationers (all of them youth) slept outdoors. One boy was forced back in early because he lost his cap in the dark.

Clothing is everything. We were taught the three Ws: wicking (to suck the sweat away from your skin), warmth, and wind resistance. Each requires a separate layer designed for its special function, but there’s no rule against extra layers. Layers trap air, and that’s good insulation. Many people don’t even own the proper kind of clothes, so the outfitters sell or rent them to visitors.

Five dogs pulling Rachel and Herb
Five dogs pulling Rachel and Herb
Singing a Duet
Singing a Duet

Our drill included tending the dogs—feeding, watering, and scooping—before breakfast. The pens are a cacophony of canine vocalization. Forty or sixty dogs awaiting food, and the activity to follow, can be mighty boisterous. Even when they’re harnessed they don’t let up; on the contrary, they become louder and frequently howl (“sing” in local lingo) in chorus. They work hard and they know how to relax. It’s not unusual to see one rolling in the snow when the team is stopped.

Looking somewhat like small wolves, these Canadian Eskimos (or Inuits) look and sound frightening, but they love to be petted even by total strangers. In fact, they’re so lovable, it’s hard not to give them hugs anytime there’s a pause in activity.

To the people who own and work with these dogs, they are family, and the mutual affection is palpable.

Sleds come in different sizes and shapes. In our case they were for either one or two sledders. In all cases the sledders stand holding on to a bar, shout commands, and work a footbrake to stop the sled from running downhill over the dogs. Our teams had either five or three dogs, harnessed to each other as well as to the sled.

Canadian Eskimos, and their relatives Siberian Huskies, have been described as “born to pull.” It appears to be in their genes that they’re happiest when pulling a load, hence their vociferous impatience when they’re being harnessed.

The experience of being pulled across a frozen lake or along a trail in the woods must be experienced to be appreciated. In a word, it’s exhilarating. Properly dressed you hardly feel the cold. There’s plenty of time to drink in the scenery because the dogs follow whoever is ahead. And the scenery is gorgeous. Whether you’re looking at the evergreens across the pristine-white lake or close up with puffballs of snow hanging from their branches, the totality is what Rachel called “a winter wonderland.”

And the dogs were quiet while they were pulling, their most ardent wish satisfied.

My longest ride was nine miles.

Lunchtime siesta
Lunchtime siesta
Inviting a belly rub
Inviting a belly rub

Wintergreen Dogsled Lodge is operated by Paul Schurke, who has led expeditions to many places, including the North Pole, and has made a USSR-approved crossing of the Bering Sea from Siberia to Alaska to help reestablish communications among the Eskimos—of common ancestry—living on both sides. On a wall in the lodge hang letters of congratulation from Presidents Reagan and George H. W. Bush and a photograph of Paul and his USSR counterpart meeting with Mikhail Gorbachev.

Below: photos and captions by Rachel Heineman

MEMORY, LONG TERM AND SHORT

Whatever happened to that brash 13-year-old
     who shamelessly threw her arms around my neck
     and locked the gaze of her hazel eyes on mine?

Whatever happened to that 14-year-old in the Juliet cap,
     whom I sought so eagerly when the curtain parted
     at the end of the worship service?

Whatever happened to the girl whose cheek I kissed,
     leaning out the window in that precious last second
     before the train began to move
    — a kiss that would sustain me for months to come?

We were children, uprooted from parental home
     by persecution and war,
     deposited in a strange country where people spoke
     a strange language,
     and after five loveless years we had found each other.

But postwar reunion with parents, who had been denied
     bearing witness to their child’s flowering,
     was just as disruptive as the original parting.

Preoccupied with memories of suffering
     they had barely survived,
     they had little patience with my romantic awakening,
     did not rejoice with me, did not allow my adolescence
     to run its natural, happy course.

Fearful and suspicious, they maligned, blocked, warned,
     and thereby sullied our parent-child relationship.
     What a shame they didn’t simply let youth’s fancy
     bloom and wither of its own accord.

Seventy years later — years of maturity,
     settled with life partner, children, grandchildren —
     she vividly remembers that lush oasis
     in the desolate landscape of our childhood.

But the present eludes her.
     She forgets my answer
     to the question she asked just minutes ago,
     even forgets that she asked.

So she asks again,
     and asks again,
     and forgets both answer and question each time.

That’s what happened to her.
     She did not choose what to remember
     and what to forget;
     her illness mercifully chose for her.

Mercifully, because forgotten questions can be repeated,
     over and over until remembered,
     but forgotten memories of youth are lost forever.

    

WORDS FOR A SACRED PLACE

I look, I listen.
I feel an indefinable presence.
In the majestic woods, in whose embrace this sacred place is nestled,
I feel it,
though my eyes see only trees and the sky above.
In the ground on which we stand, so full of life and the remains of life deceased,
I feel it,
though my ears hear only the occasional birdcall and the random rustle of leaves.
I sense a hand beckoning and a voice softly saying,
“If you are moved by what you’ve felt here,
then, in your good time, come to me, add your voice to mine,
so that together we may afford the same experience to those you’ve left behind.”

Meditation Garden, a place for quiet and contemplation in the woods at Medford Leas, underwent extensive reconstruction in the summer of 2013. These lines were written for its dedication on November 7 of that year.

A MOST PRECIOUS GIFT

The love of a friend is unlike any other,
Unlike husband for wife, unlike sister for brother.

It does not compete, it does not displace,
But claims in your heart its select, reserved space.

It’s not rooted in task, in advancement, or duty,
It’s a bond, pure and simple, and there lies its beauty.

It is honest, sincere, has no need for disguise.
Its embrace is for all, the naïve and the wise.

It is food for the intellect, food for the soul,
It nurtures the spirit and renders it whole.

Should you be despondent or feel cast adrift
Think of a true friend and your spirits will lift

…Indeed,

The love of a friend is a most precious gift.